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Dirty Boy! The second date

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By Mary Ellen Tracy

Long ago and far away, in 1972, I moved to Boston from a small coal mining town in Pennsylvania. My goal was to immerse myself in the arts. Beantown! The museums, concerts, Red Sox, even macrame classes… culture abounded!

At work, I met a guy who was an actual New England gentleman. We had a great first date: Symphony Hall to see Kris Kristofferson followed by a stroll to the old Pru Observation Deck to watch the city lights. We held hands all night. Very romantic. So far, so good.

When he asked me out on a second date to see an artsy movie at midnight. I was intrigued. I wore my paisley maxi-dress, appropriate for an offbeat evening. We drove to a (now demolished) theatre near Haymarket Square, not far from the hospital where we worked. Every seat was taken. My date had an excellent visual memory and began poking me with his elbow pointing out doctors and nurses we knew, who strangely enough avoided any eye contact. Being a goody-two-shoes, I sensed perhaps we weren’t “supposed” to be there. The movie was called Pink Flamingos. Could this be a porno flick involving birds?

As the movie progressed, it became apparent that this was no traditional or sentimental artsy flick. Out of the darkness bursts of laughter rang out. The guffaws, sniggers, and howls of amusement swelled. Every person in the theatre was gagging on their shocked laughs, snot ran down noses, most undies were wet. All that hooting and exuberance literally rocked the place.

I was experiencing the wildest cinematic experience of my life! Oh, to be in the presence of the Grossest Person in the World! This theme was the stuff that (my) dreams were made of, one that all guys back home strived to achieve by acting out their weirdest improvisations of wit for me and my girlfriends, Marilyn and Michele. Endless laughter.

My eyes kept shifting to my date. As 99% of my funny bones were still jangling, I wondered, what kind of guy takes a girl to see Pink Flamingos on a second date? No one can deny that Divine’s final meal of the film wrought theatrical chaos equaling Glenn Beck rallies. Aside from the feint of heart who fled earlier, people remained glued to their seats, shocked, some doubled over, the muscles in their faces frozen into the Joker’s mask. Everyone was amused out of their minds.

I leaned towards James, “Did you know what this movie was about before bringing me here?” He denied it with his lips, but his eyes twinkled.

I regarded my date with suspicion. I realized that here was a guy who, despite his Clark Kent demeanor, appreciated the basest and wildest humor which sustained me through hard times. John Waters from Baltimore, MD was the embodiment of my grossest friends from Wilkes-Barre, PA. Could be that my love affair with my future husband AND John Waters began that very night.

I’m still a fan of both.

And so are my kids.

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I LOVE this story!

— M. Balbone · Nov 19, 11:56 AM · #

Excellent post, Mary Ellen! You know, I did something very similar with MY beloved on one of our early dates—I think it was the second one as well. I took her to see The Aristocrats. She ALSO passed the test, and I look forward to her sense of humor helping us through our big, scary future.

— Ricky P. · Nov 19, 12:13 PM · #

I love MET and Dr. Tracy!

— Marco Ottmeal · Nov 19, 12:28 PM · #

This is fantastic. Beautifully narrated!

— M. Brouwer · Nov 19, 01:16 PM · #

This is my favorite. So great. It’s very clear where Liz and Jimmy get it from! I love this story!!

— Emily Sue · Nov 19, 08:37 PM · #

Divine may be the Filthiest Person Alive, but, not to worry. You can each compete with her in your own special way. A beautiful memory, and, as your old flatmate, one I heard about the very next morning. Go Somerville!!

— Donald Cannon · Nov 19, 11:05 PM · #

Oh my gosh! John Waters would definitely appreciate this. Sandy says to send it to him! And I agree, dirty girl.

— Marilyn Saba · Nov 21, 08:20 PM · #

Two thumbs up!

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